Sometimes we come across someone we are attracted to from far away. I am not saying it is a bad thing, but it can be very very frustrating, lonely, depressing and can leave you feeling insecure. I feel you have to make more effort in making each other feel secure, loved, respected and wanted, so my advice is:
1. Communicate everyday, you can call, text, web cam, and random surprises are sweet.
2. Make sure you talk about your emotions about things on the phone not by text, texts can be taken the wrong way when you cant hear the emotion or tone of your voice.
3. Something to look forward to is needed, like if you are going to visit and spend a few days or for a week every few weeks or every few months, make sure its regular between you both, find the time to make plans and look forward to them.
4.Talk about everything, how your day went, what's going on around you, its nice to know what your partner is doing, even if you have heard it all before. But be tactful not suspicious.
5.You cant stay long distant forever, so make future plans with each other. Knowing that you can and will be together at a point is important, or the desperate, lonely,depressed side will start the emotional roller coaster.
6. Just make sure that before you start a long distant relationship that you can make a decision to relocate, because one of you or both of you have to in order to be together, so if you are not prepared to do this at some point, do not start the relationship.
7. Make sure you have the finances to have a long distant relationship, it can be costly travelling back and forth or relocating, but I am sure if you find long distant true love, it will be worth every penny.
Good luck on your searching.
